Yup. This could be it. My last post ever on the Fuckwit. Hee heee hee - on his wedding day, no less. Because it's come around, as it should have.
Apparently the fuckwit presented the fiancee with a prenup - a little over a week ago. It was the same prenup that his brother had HIS wife sign, so what could possibly be the problem? It left her with nothing. N O T H I N G. Not after 1, 5, 10, 20 or even 50 years. And if he died - she got nothing. She refused to sign it, he refused to budge. She refused to budge. And then told him to screw and moved back to California. Of course he's telling people that he broke it off - but that's not what really happened from what I understand. Another twisted reality to make himself look the victim when he's really not.
She saw the *TRUE* Fuckwit - and his siblings, and what they are all about. Thank goodness for her! I just hope if the whole virgin thing was true that she didn't give it up for him before the wedding.
I'm sorry, but REALLY??? NOTHING? I wouldn't have signed it either. And while that may initially look like it's about the money, it's really not. She gave up her life in California, her family and friends - moved to Michigan - and granted, they wouldn't last for more than a year or two - but she didn't know that. She was expecting to spend the rest of her life with this person. So imagine 30 years down the road something happens to him. They've got 3-4 kids. What is she left with to show of 30 years of marriage? Nothing. Not the house she'd lived in, the job was long gone because he needs full time care (as do those kids!) - that's not worth anything? Really? Even if it was 2-3 years. That's worth nothing? I would think that her virginity at least would be worth something.
So anyway - he showed his selfish, disgusting fuckwit self. His siblings showed that they are all about the money and keeping it close. It's only money. It's unfortunate that to them, it's more important than real relationships with people that don't give a shit about the money. But when it comes down to it - that is what it's all about - to them. Live your lonely lives and wonder why you are all so socially retarded and don't have any *real* friends other than the ones who live in the same bubble you're in and the Fuckwit will continue with ones like, oh... I don't know - the FFW? She's a great example. LOL
Karma. Gotta love it. I know I do!
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Sunday, June 13, 2010
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Please excuse my rudeness...
but this is an open letter to my ex's (the FW) fiancee... Yes, I said fiancee..
RUN. As fast as you can - RUN.
He is a pathological liar - which you will find out, probably too late. He twists reality to suit his own needs (usually making him look the victim) and wants. He is a very selfish person, and will do what he wants to get what he wants when he wants it.
He has had a self-imposed "two year" expiration date on most of his relationships - mainly because his attention span can't last much longer than that. The only reason why you got a ring and a proposal is because you refuse to sleep with him until you're married. We'll give the expiration date a little leeway, but you've been warned.
Don't believe everything he tells you. Especially about his ex-girlfriends. Most of it? Not true. His father will never hand over his company to him. He will never gain full custody of his son. He is considered the fuck-up in his family. And for good reason.
Everyone knows that you write his emails for him - he is a grammatical nightmare, and when they make sense? They're written by someone else. I did it, as did the one before me. We all fell victim to the "poor me" - we just got out before we got sucked in too far. Regardless of what he may have told you. And for me? I'm so much happier now - so when he tells you that I'm bitter and want him back - SO not true. I wouldn't touch him with a 10 ft. pole. I don't care how much money he has.
While some members of his family are wonderful, most of them are not what they seem. They will make you believe they care about you and stab you in the back without warning. They would support him in anything - including locking you out of the house if you try to tell him what to do or suggest anything that he is not in favor of.
Don't ever suggest to him he can't be friends with someone - no matter how much they take advantage of him - or give him an ultimatum - because the act of you telling him "NO" will turn him into the 17 year old boy that he truly is and he will dig his heels deep into the shit that they usually are in - and you will lose.
Run now while you can. It's not worth giving up your integrity, life and all else that you hold on to.
But if you don't run? Get married, pregnant and then take him for everything you can - because in a court of law? Virgin trumps EVERYTHING.
RUN. As fast as you can - RUN.
He is a pathological liar - which you will find out, probably too late. He twists reality to suit his own needs (usually making him look the victim) and wants. He is a very selfish person, and will do what he wants to get what he wants when he wants it.
He has had a self-imposed "two year" expiration date on most of his relationships - mainly because his attention span can't last much longer than that. The only reason why you got a ring and a proposal is because you refuse to sleep with him until you're married. We'll give the expiration date a little leeway, but you've been warned.
Don't believe everything he tells you. Especially about his ex-girlfriends. Most of it? Not true. His father will never hand over his company to him. He will never gain full custody of his son. He is considered the fuck-up in his family. And for good reason.
Everyone knows that you write his emails for him - he is a grammatical nightmare, and when they make sense? They're written by someone else. I did it, as did the one before me. We all fell victim to the "poor me" - we just got out before we got sucked in too far. Regardless of what he may have told you. And for me? I'm so much happier now - so when he tells you that I'm bitter and want him back - SO not true. I wouldn't touch him with a 10 ft. pole. I don't care how much money he has.
While some members of his family are wonderful, most of them are not what they seem. They will make you believe they care about you and stab you in the back without warning. They would support him in anything - including locking you out of the house if you try to tell him what to do or suggest anything that he is not in favor of.
Don't ever suggest to him he can't be friends with someone - no matter how much they take advantage of him - or give him an ultimatum - because the act of you telling him "NO" will turn him into the 17 year old boy that he truly is and he will dig his heels deep into the shit that they usually are in - and you will lose.
Run now while you can. It's not worth giving up your integrity, life and all else that you hold on to.
But if you don't run? Get married, pregnant and then take him for everything you can - because in a court of law? Virgin trumps EVERYTHING.
Friday, July 17, 2009
F You Friday
Two years ago this month, I had just come back from one of the most beautiful places that I'd ever been to. What an amazing, amazing trip.
This was our accommodations:
During that trip we also got to see Seattle, and some other great places. And when we got back to MI, a lot of bullshit got thrown at me, and my ex and I ended up breaking up.
So, here's to new beginnings, better lives and standing up for what you believe in - even if you stand alone.
While I would do it all again, I may have done it a bit differently, so that others would have seen the truth, what was really going on and so that certain people (cough.. Jocelyn... cough...) would have been exposed as the con artist that slowly people are starting to realize she is. It's been a long time coming, but karma is sweet.
Happy "Anniversary" Theo - and go fuck yourself. LOL
This was our accommodations:
During that trip we also got to see Seattle, and some other great places. And when we got back to MI, a lot of bullshit got thrown at me, and my ex and I ended up breaking up.
So, here's to new beginnings, better lives and standing up for what you believe in - even if you stand alone.
While I would do it all again, I may have done it a bit differently, so that others would have seen the truth, what was really going on and so that certain people (cough.. Jocelyn... cough...) would have been exposed as the con artist that slowly people are starting to realize she is. It's been a long time coming, but karma is sweet.
Happy "Anniversary" Theo - and go fuck yourself. LOL
Saturday, March 7, 2009
I'm alive... I'm alive...
Last weekend we had a blast in Chicago. I got to go to Trader Joe's and stock up on my salsa. Forgot the Moral Fiber though. Dammit! I know people that can use some and was going to arrange to have it anonymously appear on their doorsteps. Ah well. They wouldn't appreciate it anyway - or understand it. LOL
Mythbusters guys was great - the best part was the boy's face when they came out. It was a look of jaw dropping awe, and then a smile. Worth the price of the tickets alone.
Did some shopping. I was in the Coach store to get a new purse - who KNEW I'd be a purse girl?? LOL Anyway - salesgirl walks right past me and over to my friend Ashley and asks HER if she's OK, needs any help, etc. and never said a word to me. We left - all done Coach! - but not before I told the greeter that *I* was the one there to spend the money and now I was going to spend it at another store. And we went to Nordstroms, where I found the cutest Jimmy Choo bag. ROFLMAO it was only $4,000. Yikes! I ended up with this adorable little gem from Kenneth Cole
THIS is the one that I wanted from Coach:
I'm not sure about the white leather choice that I made,but we'll see how it goes..
I've been fighting off (at the least) a sinus infection all week. Some days I feel like my head is going to explode.
The snow is gone, though. My counter top is going to be replaced this coming week. My garage door opener will be installed and the 1st week of April, I'll have a concrete slab patio. Woohoo!
I started my 2nd class this week, too - lots of homework with that one. I really need to get my wireless fixed so I can use the laptop, otherwise it's going to get ugly around here - the boy is on the computer more than I am. Things seem to be better for him in school - no more harassment from those kids and he's been going through the testing for the 504/IEP. I'm not sure how this is going to go - we have a meeting on the 17th and the person testing him keeps telling him how GREAT he's doing on all the tests. Arrgh. Not sure if that's good or bad.
On a FUNNY note? The fuckwit's brother is apparently back in town and working for their father at his company. Which wouldn't seem like a big deal, but if you know the fuckwit - he and his brother snark at each other constantly because of jealousy issues (or rather the fuckwit snarks at him and the brother pokes at him because he knows it'll get him riled up). The fuckwit at one time worked for the same company and believed while we were together that he would be handed the company some day because he was the first born son. Never mind that he has no head for business, no degree and he got FIRED from the company. So the fact that his brother is now working there (and I doubt it's an entry level position which is what he had)? Must really burrrrrrrrrrrrn his ass. This? To me? It's just part of his karmic retribution, and pretty damn funny.
I have lots of reading to catch up on. Happy Saturday!!
Mythbusters guys was great - the best part was the boy's face when they came out. It was a look of jaw dropping awe, and then a smile. Worth the price of the tickets alone.
Did some shopping. I was in the Coach store to get a new purse - who KNEW I'd be a purse girl?? LOL Anyway - salesgirl walks right past me and over to my friend Ashley and asks HER if she's OK, needs any help, etc. and never said a word to me. We left - all done Coach! - but not before I told the greeter that *I* was the one there to spend the money and now I was going to spend it at another store. And we went to Nordstroms, where I found the cutest Jimmy Choo bag. ROFLMAO it was only $4,000. Yikes! I ended up with this adorable little gem from Kenneth Cole
THIS is the one that I wanted from Coach:
I'm not sure about the white leather choice that I made,but we'll see how it goes..
I've been fighting off (at the least) a sinus infection all week. Some days I feel like my head is going to explode.
The snow is gone, though. My counter top is going to be replaced this coming week. My garage door opener will be installed and the 1st week of April, I'll have a concrete slab patio. Woohoo!
I started my 2nd class this week, too - lots of homework with that one. I really need to get my wireless fixed so I can use the laptop, otherwise it's going to get ugly around here - the boy is on the computer more than I am. Things seem to be better for him in school - no more harassment from those kids and he's been going through the testing for the 504/IEP. I'm not sure how this is going to go - we have a meeting on the 17th and the person testing him keeps telling him how GREAT he's doing on all the tests. Arrgh. Not sure if that's good or bad.
On a FUNNY note? The fuckwit's brother is apparently back in town and working for their father at his company. Which wouldn't seem like a big deal, but if you know the fuckwit - he and his brother snark at each other constantly because of jealousy issues (or rather the fuckwit snarks at him and the brother pokes at him because he knows it'll get him riled up). The fuckwit at one time worked for the same company and believed while we were together that he would be handed the company some day because he was the first born son. Never mind that he has no head for business, no degree and he got FIRED from the company. So the fact that his brother is now working there (and I doubt it's an entry level position which is what he had)? Must really burrrrrrrrrrrrn his ass. This? To me? It's just part of his karmic retribution, and pretty damn funny.
I have lots of reading to catch up on. Happy Saturday!!
Monday, December 22, 2008
Manic Monday :) <---- Click to play along!
If you were at a friend’s house for a holiday dinner and you found a dead cockroach in your salad, what would you do?
It would depend on how close a friend. I'd definitely stop eating it, and probably stop anyone else around me. If it were someone that I knew I could do it with, I'd stop them all! Stop! There's an uninvited guest in the salad! Then I would find out who invited the bugger (pun intended) and smack them upside the head. Why, you might ask? Because salads would be ruined for me forever. You have no idea the extent of my bug phobia - they freak me out, and while I've gotten much better over the years? Bug? in my food? Um. Yeah. Not so much.
If you could put anyone you know on Prozac, who would you choose?
Oh my. I know so many people that are wound waaaaaaaay too tight. I can't choose just one.
How do you feel about public displays of affection?
I'm ok with it if it's a spur of the moment thing, but doing it to mark your territory (that's another post), stake a claim, or because you think it's the right thing to do? Nope. Or if you're going to hump my leg like a dog? Nope. Because that right there is going to make me want to jump your bones right then and there. The humping of the leg, that is. I used to go out with a guy that did that constantly, and I was like GET OFF ME!!! And then he wondered why I wasn't feeling all sexy later. Um, that's because you banged me into the counter and now I have a huge bruise? Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. That's an example of someone not grasping the concept, because he'd do it again. And again. And again.
BUT... I digress. Gimme a kiss, hold my hand, I think it's wonderful. Hump me? Not so much.
If you were at a friend’s house for a holiday dinner and you found a dead cockroach in your salad, what would you do?
It would depend on how close a friend. I'd definitely stop eating it, and probably stop anyone else around me. If it were someone that I knew I could do it with, I'd stop them all! Stop! There's an uninvited guest in the salad! Then I would find out who invited the bugger (pun intended) and smack them upside the head. Why, you might ask? Because salads would be ruined for me forever. You have no idea the extent of my bug phobia - they freak me out, and while I've gotten much better over the years? Bug? in my food? Um. Yeah. Not so much.
If you could put anyone you know on Prozac, who would you choose?
Oh my. I know so many people that are wound waaaaaaaay too tight. I can't choose just one.
How do you feel about public displays of affection?
I'm ok with it if it's a spur of the moment thing, but doing it to mark your territory (that's another post), stake a claim, or because you think it's the right thing to do? Nope. Or if you're going to hump my leg like a dog? Nope. Because that right there is going to make me want to jump your bones right then and there. The humping of the leg, that is. I used to go out with a guy that did that constantly, and I was like GET OFF ME!!! And then he wondered why I wasn't feeling all sexy later. Um, that's because you banged me into the counter and now I have a huge bruise? Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. That's an example of someone not grasping the concept, because he'd do it again. And again. And again.
BUT... I digress. Gimme a kiss, hold my hand, I think it's wonderful. Hump me? Not so much.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK!
And now, for the letter
Thistle was kind enough to share her letters with me, and has given me the E :)
Here is my list of 10 wonderful(and some not-so-wonderful) things that start with the letter :)
10. I drink a lot of water, and Evian is pretty nice once in a while (it's just hard to justify the expense because it is, after all, just water).
9. Our last election brought us new hope!
8. Ebay is a great source of income and wonderful deals. I have bought and sold a lot of *stuff* on there. It's amazing what people will pay for!
7. Email is a wonderful way to keep in touch with my family and friends back home in Boston :)
6. Espresso.
'Nuff said.
5. This one is too good to resist. Ex-boyfriends. I have a few. One liked to show his penis on the internet, the other was just a fuckwit who like to blame everyone else for his problems/issues and refuse to own his bad choices. Ahhhh, ex's, gotta love 'em (ACK!!) Which brings me to.....
4. Ethics. Pretty much knowing the difference between right and wrong. I have a very strong work ethic, and live by the ethics that my parents instilled in me. *I* am a good person, and I know that. It's too bad that in my life I have met a few that don't have any. Which (again) brings me to....
3. Expectations. In life we all have expectations. Some of the basics are respect, honor and the truth. Not too much to ask. It's what I give, and what I should get in return.
2. My favorite E of all time.... see if you can figure this one out:
And the number one E (in my book at least)..........
1. If nothing else, I have learned that an EDUCATION is one of the most important things you can get for yourself. I'm 2 classes away from one degree, and working toward the next! And I mean a real education - not where you sign up for a class, get someone to pay for it and then drop the class to get the money. Oh! And another one is taking silly classes like "the effects of rubber chickens in outer space" so you can tell people that you're in school.. I'm talking a REAL education.
Thistle was kind enough to share her letters with me, and has given me the E :)
Here is my list of 10 wonderful(and some not-so-wonderful) things that start with the letter :)
10. I drink a lot of water, and Evian is pretty nice once in a while (it's just hard to justify the expense because it is, after all, just water).
9. Our last election brought us new hope!
8. Ebay is a great source of income and wonderful deals. I have bought and sold a lot of *stuff* on there. It's amazing what people will pay for!
7. Email is a wonderful way to keep in touch with my family and friends back home in Boston :)
6. Espresso.
'Nuff said. 5. This one is too good to resist. Ex-boyfriends. I have a few. One liked to show his penis on the internet, the other was just a fuckwit who like to blame everyone else for his problems/issues and refuse to own his bad choices. Ahhhh, ex's, gotta love 'em (ACK!!) Which brings me to.....
4. Ethics. Pretty much knowing the difference between right and wrong. I have a very strong work ethic, and live by the ethics that my parents instilled in me. *I* am a good person, and I know that. It's too bad that in my life I have met a few that don't have any. Which (again) brings me to....
3. Expectations. In life we all have expectations. Some of the basics are respect, honor and the truth. Not too much to ask. It's what I give, and what I should get in return.
2. My favorite E of all time.... see if you can figure this one out:
And the number one E (in my book at least)..........
1. If nothing else, I have learned that an EDUCATION is one of the most important things you can get for yourself. I'm 2 classes away from one degree, and working toward the next! And I mean a real education - not where you sign up for a class, get someone to pay for it and then drop the class to get the money. Oh! And another one is taking silly classes like "the effects of rubber chickens in outer space" so you can tell people that you're in school.. I'm talking a REAL education.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Blue...
Why I am not a fan of the color blue any more.. My ex (the fuckwit) loved blue. Would buy anything blue. Cars? Blue. It didn't matter - if it was blue - he loved it and had to have it. The pretty blue Kitchen Aid mixer? It didn't matter that he never used it - didn't even know how - when I left and took it, there was a fit made because *I TOOK THE PRETTY BLUE MIXER*... Catch the drift? OK - here are some pictures (OLD ones) of a friend of mine at one end of the kitchen (with Dewey the wonder dog who we miss very much), and my fat ass at the other. Note the continuing color into the hallway. Yes, it continued.. Enjoy the blue...
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Shut UP!
Much like Elaine in Seinfeld ~ Erin - if you were here, I'd shove you. LOL
My friend Erin nominated me for this:
Dayam! I never win anything!! Woot! Woot!
What I'm going to do is nominate some of my faves, some of whom might read here, some I know that don't :):
Cool chick is the blog of Tammy, wife of Melissa Etheridge. I forget why I started reading it, but she's hysterical at times, some of the stories when the kids were babies just cracked me up. I enjoy reading the honest and insightful stories about life on the left coast. :)
Baby Leah is the blog of my cousin Michelle and her journey as a first time mom and her adorable baby that I have YET to see in person. She needs to post more (hint.. hint...) I can't wait to get "home" and see them all. sniff.. sniff...
Urban Paramedic is the blog of a city of Boston medic and his travels through the urban jungle. It's a great blog - but right now you have to go through the archives, he's been deployed to Germany and may or may not be back to the blog. I have to admit, I really miss it.
Enjoy, check them out - and happy reading!!
Today I am going to be knees deep in classwork - my two Fall 2 session classes started Wednesday. Humanities and Sociology. And Sociology would be MUCH easier if I'd gotten that book instead of the Psychology one. Whoops! I'm a maroon.
The house is coming along - the mess is making me nuts, which is a good thing, because that's when I just start throwing shit out. I have to go out and pick up sprinklers and hoses - because of course NOW is when they choose to put in my sod (that I asked not to be installed until the spring) and it needs to be watered the first 24 hours. I'm also going to pick up my PC - minus all the stuff I had on the hard drive, because of course it had to crash. Hopefully there wasn't anything important on it. I know I lost pictures of the fuckwit. ROFL YAY!! So maybe it's a good thing? A fresh start of sorts. :)
Ahhhhh Saturday. At least I slept past 6AM.
My friend Erin nominated me for this:
Dayam! I never win anything!! Woot! Woot!
What I'm going to do is nominate some of my faves, some of whom might read here, some I know that don't :):
Cool chick is the blog of Tammy, wife of Melissa Etheridge. I forget why I started reading it, but she's hysterical at times, some of the stories when the kids were babies just cracked me up. I enjoy reading the honest and insightful stories about life on the left coast. :)
Baby Leah is the blog of my cousin Michelle and her journey as a first time mom and her adorable baby that I have YET to see in person. She needs to post more (hint.. hint...) I can't wait to get "home" and see them all. sniff.. sniff...
Urban Paramedic is the blog of a city of Boston medic and his travels through the urban jungle. It's a great blog - but right now you have to go through the archives, he's been deployed to Germany and may or may not be back to the blog. I have to admit, I really miss it.
Enjoy, check them out - and happy reading!!
Today I am going to be knees deep in classwork - my two Fall 2 session classes started Wednesday. Humanities and Sociology. And Sociology would be MUCH easier if I'd gotten that book instead of the Psychology one. Whoops! I'm a maroon.
The house is coming along - the mess is making me nuts, which is a good thing, because that's when I just start throwing shit out. I have to go out and pick up sprinklers and hoses - because of course NOW is when they choose to put in my sod (that I asked not to be installed until the spring) and it needs to be watered the first 24 hours. I'm also going to pick up my PC - minus all the stuff I had on the hard drive, because of course it had to crash. Hopefully there wasn't anything important on it. I know I lost pictures of the fuckwit. ROFL YAY!! So maybe it's a good thing? A fresh start of sorts. :)
Ahhhhh Saturday. At least I slept past 6AM.
Sunday, September 21, 2008
Sunday round up
So the house is done. As in completed. Holy shit, you say? Yeah - me too. All that's left now is touch-ups, inspections and clean up. I should know my closing date this week - but I've taken a leap of faith and called the movers for the 11th of October. I did the address change at the post office for 10/10. Too bad it's not 2010. LOL That would be cool.
I'm taking an accounting class online and it's kicking my butt. I don't know if it's because I over think it, or what - but I just can't wrap my mind around it - it's so hard. I think online is not the medium to take this class, but right now I don't have much of a choice. I've actually approached someone about tutoring me, or even worse, taking the class for me and I'll pay them. I can't believe that I've even thought of that, but that's how much I *don't* get it. The only reason I'm taking the class is for my degree - not for any planned future accounting usage in my life. I actually packed all day yesterday rather than do my homework. I hate packing. LOL
So this week I found out the FFW (aka the filthy fucking whore) is now engaged. To the boyfriend that she moved into the house that she lives in rent-free. Which in turn makes the fuckwit now supporting him, too. How stupid can he get?? I don't care about the fuckwit at all - but I hate her. I hate what she did to my kid without a second thought. I hate that she was the catalyst that ended my relationship (even though it was OK that the relationship ended, it should have been on my terms, not HERS). I hate that she was my friend and used me to get where she is. I love that while she's still sucking off a fuckwit millionaire that doesn't know any better and continues to make excuses for why he supports her, I've done what I've always done - survived and turned it around. I have a brand new house that is completed - that *I* will be paying for. I don't rely on anyone else for my well being. I support myself and my kid. I hate that she still lives in this town. I hate that he's gotten most of his family to think that I was the bad guy by lying to them to justify his actions. Is it a bad thing that I expend the energy to still hate her? Does it mean that I really haven't moved on? I want to see her brought down, is that a bad thing? I've filed a welfare fraud complaint against her. I'm sure she's still on it. He testified in court that she was his employee. Is it a bad thing that I want to turn her into the IRS for not claiming the equivalent of what he's given her as taxable income? At some point, I know I need to let it go - but seriously - I don't know if that's going to happen as long as she is living here rent-free.
Anyway. Happy Sunday. I'm off to read chapter 4 of Fundamentals of Accounting. Not sure how much good it'll do seeing as how I don't understand chapters 1-3, but I'm going to give it a shot. LOL
I'm taking an accounting class online and it's kicking my butt. I don't know if it's because I over think it, or what - but I just can't wrap my mind around it - it's so hard. I think online is not the medium to take this class, but right now I don't have much of a choice. I've actually approached someone about tutoring me, or even worse, taking the class for me and I'll pay them. I can't believe that I've even thought of that, but that's how much I *don't* get it. The only reason I'm taking the class is for my degree - not for any planned future accounting usage in my life. I actually packed all day yesterday rather than do my homework. I hate packing. LOL
So this week I found out the FFW (aka the filthy fucking whore) is now engaged. To the boyfriend that she moved into the house that she lives in rent-free. Which in turn makes the fuckwit now supporting him, too. How stupid can he get?? I don't care about the fuckwit at all - but I hate her. I hate what she did to my kid without a second thought. I hate that she was the catalyst that ended my relationship (even though it was OK that the relationship ended, it should have been on my terms, not HERS). I hate that she was my friend and used me to get where she is. I love that while she's still sucking off a fuckwit millionaire that doesn't know any better and continues to make excuses for why he supports her, I've done what I've always done - survived and turned it around. I have a brand new house that is completed - that *I* will be paying for. I don't rely on anyone else for my well being. I support myself and my kid. I hate that she still lives in this town. I hate that he's gotten most of his family to think that I was the bad guy by lying to them to justify his actions. Is it a bad thing that I expend the energy to still hate her? Does it mean that I really haven't moved on? I want to see her brought down, is that a bad thing? I've filed a welfare fraud complaint against her. I'm sure she's still on it. He testified in court that she was his employee. Is it a bad thing that I want to turn her into the IRS for not claiming the equivalent of what he's given her as taxable income? At some point, I know I need to let it go - but seriously - I don't know if that's going to happen as long as she is living here rent-free.
Anyway. Happy Sunday. I'm off to read chapter 4 of Fundamentals of Accounting. Not sure how much good it'll do seeing as how I don't understand chapters 1-3, but I'm going to give it a shot. LOL
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Sunday ramblings...
I slept in until almost 10AM today. It was deeeeeeeelightful! Hung out with some friends yesterday, we had dip. mmmmmmm Got to ride in a Wrangler with the top down. This is what the sky looked like:
I miss my Wrangler. Love my jeep - but it doesn't have the topless feel. lol I think next year, I will go back to one. Gotta love 'em.
Went by and checked on the house - the kitchen floor is in yay! and my cabinets and countertops and all of the doors are in the garage. They will go in this week. SUCH excitement!
Today I'm off to see
our next POTUS. He's appearing in the town next door. And I'm going with my friend Dude. Cool guy. Plus - his name is Dude. How could you NOT like a guy with a name like that?
Nothing new to report in the Fuckwit Chronicles, maybe that's a good thing?
Oh. And I have raised (so far) the laziest kid in the universe. Lying on the couch, asking me if *I* can heat up the pancakes in the freezer for him. Huh? Are YOUR hands broken?? There are some days that he is so independent it scares me, and other when he is so dependent it's creepy. LOL Oh well. He is my baby, after all.
I miss my Wrangler. Love my jeep - but it doesn't have the topless feel. lol I think next year, I will go back to one. Gotta love 'em.
Went by and checked on the house - the kitchen floor is in yay! and my cabinets and countertops and all of the doors are in the garage. They will go in this week. SUCH excitement!
Today I'm off to see
our next POTUS. He's appearing in the town next door. And I'm going with my friend Dude. Cool guy. Plus - his name is Dude. How could you NOT like a guy with a name like that? Nothing new to report in the Fuckwit Chronicles, maybe that's a good thing?
Oh. And I have raised (so far) the laziest kid in the universe. Lying on the couch, asking me if *I* can heat up the pancakes in the freezer for him. Huh? Are YOUR hands broken?? There are some days that he is so independent it scares me, and other when he is so dependent it's creepy. LOL Oh well. He is my baby, after all.
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Post Secret
So, OK, I'll admit it - I'm a junkie. Sometimes I'll look late Saturday night (well, early Sunday morning) for the new ones. I love having that tiny little peek into other people's lives and what makes them tick (or tock).
What you may or may not know is that there is also a Post Secret myspace
A couple of weeks ago I read through so many pages of how to describe your life in 6 words. That's all you got. 6 words. So many people used more, used less, but a lot put 6. I was amazed at how many were about how they found love and now they are who they should be, or "will you ever love me again" or just not about THEM but about other people. One girl put "I blame you for my wrongs". I actually responded to her and said "If you blame someone else, then how are they *your* wrongs? Either you own them, or you don't." What is it with so many people that they can't own their own choices - or even make their own choices for that matter? My ex (the fuckwit) never made a conscious decision on his own - he would consult everyone around him, then call his financial guy, mother, father, stepmother, stepfather, sister, brother's best friend, dog walker, 1-800-grow-a-spine and then think on it for a week. And then? He'd do the opposite of what everyone told him to do. And when it didn't work out - he'd blame it one everyone else. I don't think I ever saw him "own" a bad decision that he made - he'd sure as hell take credit for the good ones, though (even if he had to lie about how it was *his* idea). But I digress.
I just found it amazing to read. Some great ones? "I LOVE that I'll never understand. No more Iraq, just come back. We're more than words on websites. My children will share with yours."
Mine? I put two "I'll always be smarter than you" (yeah, that was a blatant dig at the fuckwit - he's not that smart LOL) and "I believe in myself, my choices".
But my *real* one that I added later? "Never let another person define you"
What you may or may not know is that there is also a Post Secret myspace
A couple of weeks ago I read through so many pages of how to describe your life in 6 words. That's all you got. 6 words. So many people used more, used less, but a lot put 6. I was amazed at how many were about how they found love and now they are who they should be, or "will you ever love me again" or just not about THEM but about other people. One girl put "I blame you for my wrongs". I actually responded to her and said "If you blame someone else, then how are they *your* wrongs? Either you own them, or you don't." What is it with so many people that they can't own their own choices - or even make their own choices for that matter? My ex (the fuckwit) never made a conscious decision on his own - he would consult everyone around him, then call his financial guy, mother, father, stepmother, stepfather, sister, brother's best friend, dog walker, 1-800-grow-a-spine and then think on it for a week. And then? He'd do the opposite of what everyone told him to do. And when it didn't work out - he'd blame it one everyone else. I don't think I ever saw him "own" a bad decision that he made - he'd sure as hell take credit for the good ones, though (even if he had to lie about how it was *his* idea). But I digress.
I just found it amazing to read. Some great ones? "I LOVE that I'll never understand. No more Iraq, just come back. We're more than words on websites. My children will share with yours."
Mine? I put two "I'll always be smarter than you" (yeah, that was a blatant dig at the fuckwit - he's not that smart LOL) and "I believe in myself, my choices".
But my *real* one that I added later? "Never let another person define you"
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